While men are mostly proficient with verbal communication, most of them are inexperienced when it comes to interpret the ‘language’ women speak. In particular, men have often a difficult time reading a woman’s signs of interest or disinterest.
Here I want to share with you some tips that will help you read a woman’s signs of interest.
Here We Go It’s Not The Words A woman will very rarely – if ever – directly acknowledge verbally that she’s attracted to you. If that’s the case, beware as she may try to manipulate you or get something from you.
Different women do different things when they are attracted to a man, and those things are mostly non-verbal.
The below list shows some of the more common signs of attraction
Signs of Attraction
She reinitiates conversation when you stop talking.
She giggles.
She touches you.
She plays with / tosses her hair.
She asks you for your name or any other personal questions (e.g., age, where you live).
She disagrees with you but laughs when she does.
She asks if you have a girlfriend or mentions your girlfriend, whether or not you’ve said you have one.
She introduces you to her friends.
She is laughing, smiling, and/or holding eye contact with you.
Passive signs
Passive signs are indicators of a different type. Instead of doing something to convey attraction, she shows her interest in you by not doing something that she would otherwise do if she weren’t attracted.
For example, she might stay to talk to you when her friends go to the bathroom. Even the very act of spending a significant amount of time with you (generally over 30 minutes) at a busy, exciting, nightclub could be a passive sign. Caveats
No sign is definitive. A woman can do some of the things on this list without being attracted to you, or she can engage in none of them and still be attracted. These are guides, not laws of physics.
It is easy to get addicted to signs of attraction. They feel good, and if you’re not used to them, they feel like little wins (“this beautiful woman is actually attracted to me !”).
The Main Signal
And the main signal that you have to look for simply is, ‘Is she acting friendly to me?’
That’s it. Now, of course some women are more forward than others; but overall, if a woman is acting friendly and keeping up an interesting conversation, you’re usually doing pretty well.
Don’t Forget to Move Things Forward And finally the key is to continue to the next step always.
Realize that you need to keep advancing. And so if your conversation is going well, ask for a phone number.
If you’re out for a walk and the conversation seems to be going well, reach over and kiss her.
Women like this and expect it. If they’re not comfortable, they’ll let you know. But don’t worry. Just keep going and advance again at the next opportunity. That’s it.
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
How To Tell If She is Interested
Friday, January 23, 2009
Woman Has 200 Orgasms A Day
This article was originally published in the News of the World on November 4, 2007
Pretty Sarah Carmen is a 200-a-day orgasm girl who gets good, good, GOOD vibrations from almost anything. The rumble of a train on the tracks, the purr of a hairdryer, the rhythmic drone of a photo-copier are all enough to make her go oh oh oh, ahhhhh.She had FIVE orgasms during our 40-minute interview. But I can't take the credit—it was just talking about her sex life that set her off.
Sarah, 24, suffers from Permanent Sexual Arousal Syndrome (PSAS), which increases blood flow to the sex organs. She said: "Sometimes I have so much sex to try to calm myself down I get bored of it. And men I sleep with don't seem to make as much effort because I climax so easily."
As she chatted, Sarah became increasingly flustered.
"Sorry, you'll have to excuse me for a minute. I'll be with you in a sec," she mumbled before letting out a long sigh.
Sarah, from London, developed PSAS after being prescribed anti-depressants at 19.
Stunned
She believes her condition was brought on by the pills. She said: "Within a few weeks I just began to get more and more aroused more and more of the time and I just kept having endless orgasms. "It started off in bed where sex sessions would last for hours and my boyfriend would be stunned at how many times I would orgasm.
"Then it would happen after sex. I'd be thinking about what we'd done in bed and I'd start feeling a bit flushed, then I'd become aroused and climax. "In six months I was having 150 orgasms a day—and it has been as many as 200."
She and her boyfriend split— and new partners struggle to keep up with her sex demands. "Often, I'll want to wear myself out by having as many orgasms as I can so they stop and I can get some peace," she said. Sarah is a beautician and working in salons filled with whirring hairdryers and skincare gadgets can cause problems.
"If I start coughing and run to the loo, the girls know to fetch the client a magazine or a cup of tea," she said, adding, "Sometimes I'd like to just have a normal life." Sarah says the Permanent Sexual Arousal Syndrome that she suffers from can cause her to have orgasm at any time of day.
She explained: "Anything can set me off. Even the hairdryers cause funny pulsations through my body.
"As a skin care specialist I have to use tools which vibrate a lot of the time for micro-dermabrasion and they sometimes set me off.
"I find if I'm nervous I'm less likely to get over-excited. So sometimes I try to psyche myself up and worry to control my orgasms.
"Some of my regular customers know my problem. But with new clients it's hard to explain.
"I have been in the middle of a treatment and it's happened and I've had to carry on.
"I was doing a bikini wax and you have to really concentrate and keep your hands very still, and mine go a bit wobbly when I orgasm.
"I had to pretend I had cramp in my foot and just stood there wriggling around on the spot and stifling my moans until it was over." Sarah's friends think she is the luckiest girl ever, although her family think her behaviour is sometimes slightly odd.
She said: "The best way to describe how I am when I am with my family and I have one of my 'moments' is that I behave like Sheila from Shameless.
"I just get a bid giddy and yelp out and try to control myself. I've never sat down and explained it to my mum and dad.
"They just think I get a bit hyperactive round them.
"My friends think it's great. I have more orgasms in one day than most of them will probably have in a year.
"They say to me that they feel lucky if their boyfriend makes them have one orgasm-some days I have one every ten minutes."
It has proved to be a problem for Sarah in some relationships. She said: "I dated one guy who was very selfish and he was that way in the bedroom too. He'd just lie back and expect me to please him.
"He just figured that because I could climax without him even having to touch me, he didn't need to do anything to please me.
"I just thought that was rude and inconsiderate. It didn't last very long with him."
Noisy
She has also had embarrassing moments in public. Going to noisy bars and clubs is out of the question as the vibrations send her wild. "We have to find nice quiet bars," she explained. "I have more orgasms if I have a drink as it relaxes me so I tend to drink very little now.
"It can be a bit embarrassing if I'm tipsy and guys who don't know me talk to me, because I find it harder to hide.
"The most embarrassing thing that has happened was when I answered a market research questionnaire and had an orgasm in front of the researcher.
"She knew what was happening and looked at me like I was a weirdo. I tried to explain that I couldn't help it, but I was blushing so much I had to walk away." Sarah has even been to a Sex Addicts' Anonymous meeting in despair over her sex drive.
She said: "At first when the problem started I just wanted to have sex all the time, I thought I was a sex addict.
"But when I looked around the room and heard the stories other people told, about how desperate they were for sex, I realised I wasn't like them.
Problem
"With me, it was a means of releasing my orgasm, but now I know I don't have to have sex to do that." Sarah has looked into the condition and believes it may have been triggered by her taking anti-depressants.
She said: "I've found studies that say that taking anti-depressants and then stopping has an effect on the sexual organs. That is the only thing that explains what happens to me.
"But I've heard of other girls who have the same problem and it just appears out of the blue. I've spoken to my doctor about it but she wasn't a great deal of help but that's mainly because there's very little known about it and no one yet knows how to cure it."
Thanks to her understanding friends and colleagues, Sarah feels like she can now live with PSAS. She said: "I'm lucky because people around me are very kind and appreciate that sometimes this is a problem for me and it can be embarrassing.
"I need to concentrate on something sad or worrying when I talk to people and I don't want to get carried away."
During our 40-minute interview, Sarah told us she had five orgasms. Years of dealing with the problem means that sometimes she can hide it quite well.
Her voice goes high pitched and she will lose her train of thought and have to stop talking completely for a few seconds. She says disguises this by coughing when she is in awkward situations.
"But it's also nice to have so much excitement every day! It's strange because it came from nowhere and I guess it could go away just as quickly, so I'm making the most of it while it lasts!"
Monday, January 19, 2009
Five Reasons Why the Holiday Season Is the Best Time to Date
Here are five reasons why the holiday season is a perfect time of year to find a date, and some tips on how to meet someone during the holidays:
1. People have taken year-end inventories. The end of the year is a time to reflect. You reflect back on what has happened in your life. You reflect back on the people you've dated during the past year, or the lack of dates you had. You might think back on some of your dating "near misses" or the people with whom you just didn't connect.
During this time of year, many people are more vulnerable than usual because they do not want to spend the holidays alone. Due to this vulnerability, people will open up more if you try to engage them in conversation. As it gets closer to winter, and especially during the holidays, people tend to be more willing to date people they otherwise wouldn't during the rest of the year. You have so many more potential connections right next to you every day of the holiday season. So keep this in mind about how people are feeling this time of year, and start being a little more friendly.
2. Christmas shopping. The holiday shopping season seems to begin before we've even taken our pumpkins off the porch, which means that there are a lot of days to go out Christmas shopping. You can go Christmas shopping every single day (whether you are actually looking for presents or not) during the holiday season. This is really the one time of year when you can wander around in stores in which you would normally not feel comfortable.
One of my favorite things to do to meet someone during the holidays is to go Christmas shopping and ask for opinions. If you are a man, you can head into the women's department and bop around getting opinions on a present for your sister. If you are a woman, go to the men's department and ask for opinions on a gift for your brother. You can start a conversation with virtually anyone by pointing out an item and saying, "Excuse me, I am shopping for my boss (or brother, sister, or mother). What is your opinion on this?" It is a natural and easy way to talk to someone new.
3. No one wants to spend New Year's Eve alone. We have all been to New Year's Eve parties where we've had to endure the 5-4-3-2-1 countdown without someone to kiss at midnight. It's not fun.
No one likes to spend New Year's Eve alone. For this reason, there are a lot of people looking to connect with someone in time for New Year's.
So how can you meet all these people? Well, the holiday season offers a number of really fun (and easy) ways to approach someone - and to make yourself very approachable.You can walk around wearing a little Santa cap to spread some holiday cheer. Or walk your dog with reindeer antlers on its head. One fun thing I had the guys do at one of my boot camps was to play the "naughty or nice" game with women. This entailed them wearing Santa caps and carrying around stockings filled with candy canes. They would walk up to women (and women could do this with men) and say, "I'll give you a candy cane if you tell me whether you've been naughty or nice and why." There are a million fun little ways to use holiday props to meet people, and with all the holiday hustle and bustle people often appreciate a little bit of fun.
4. Unlimited holiday events. Going to holiday-related public events is another way to have fun and possibly meet your potential soul mate. Shops often will stay open late on a Friday night, and towns will have things like Christmas walks and open houses on store-filled streets. It's amazing how many people you can engage just by wishing them a merry Christmas or Happy Holidays - and end up in a great conversation.
5. Plan your own events.
The holiday season is also the perfect time to create your own fun activities. For example, throw a Secret Santa party where you invite singles and tell them to bring a gift for someone else who is single. Or have a holiday party where you ask your guests to bring someone to the party whom no one else has met. This allows you to start building your social network.
So try having a new mindset this holiday season. Instead of thinking about what you didn't have during the past year, why not be thankful for the things you've accomplished and end of the year with a bang?Start engaging other singles a lot more, and you just might surprise yourself. Then when 5-4-3-2-1 comes around, you could be looking into the eyes of that new mate you met during the holiday season.
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Thursday, January 15, 2009
Couple Weds at Taco Bell
Wedding bells meant Taco Bell for Paul and Caragh Brooks.
Customers inside the fast-food restaurant continued to order tacos and burritos as the couple sat Friday in an orange booth at Taco Bell and exchanged vows.
"It's appropriate," groom Paul Brooks said. "It's an offbeat relationship."
Employees displayed hot sauce packets labeled with the words "Will you marry me?" They decorated the restaurant with streamers and balloons.
The bride wore a $15 hot pink dress and the entire wedding cost about $200. Several dozen guests looked on as the couple's friend, Ryan Green of Normal, administered the vows while wearing a T-shirt. He was ordained online.
"This is the way to go there's no stress," said the groom's mother, Kathy Brooks.
Caragh Brooks, 21, of Australia, met Paul Brooks, 30, on an Internet dating Web site. They already had the same last name. The couple wrote back and forth and talked on the phone for nine months before Caragh Brooks moved to the United States.
"We have the same brain, just in two bodies," Paul Brooks said. "We think alike in virtually every manner. We have the same interests, viewpoints."
He proposed on New Year's Eve and, because they like to spend time at the local Taco Bell, they decided to wed there. "I would never have expected in my life in working here there would be a wedding," restaurant manager Carl Hamlow said.
Sunday, January 11, 2009
Free Online Dating - Niche Sites
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Niche sites are a type of free on line dating sites with a more focused and specific membership. They may be structured around geographic locations or races. They possibly could be more age specific than the general site. There are French dating sites or Asian dating sites or Adult Dating Sites for example. Sometimes there are niche sites such as those for overweight people or African Americans. The niche site might be one for mature people, such as 55-plus. You don't need to stick to a niche site to enjoy online dating sites, but it can help you to find people who share general characteristics with you.
Free on line dating initiated at one of the niche sites has a number of advantages, particularly over those that require you to pay for the services provided. For example, you are communicating with people who have some characteristics that are similar to your own or to those you are interested in learning about. For example, if you are Asian and want to date only other Asians, there is no point in spending a lot of time going through hundreds if not thousands of Caucasian members. For efficiency's sake, using a niche site that has only Asian members.
Niche sites also have some disadvantages compared to other free on line dating sites. For example, since they are generally smaller than the large general sites, there are fewer people to select from. Since you are usually limiting your choices anyway, this may not be an insurmountable problem for you, but if you are joining the web site to meet the maximum number of people, then a niche site may not be the right choice for you. Of course, niche sites also have the disadvantage of creating some stereotypes that will limit you.
Niche sites may be the perfect choice for you if some characteristic is more important to you than the number of members of all types that you get on most free on line dating sites. You need to recognize that niche sites are usually smaller with fewer members than general membership sites. If you are Spanish speaking, obviously a Spanish speaking niche site would be a good selection for you. The same is true of any other language group. The choice will depend upon your motivation for joining the site.
Niche sites still must have some basic criteria to be used to hold them together. If the approval process or the application process is too specific, they may serve to exclude members rather than to include members. Free on line dating sites are successful mainly because they are inclusive, not exclusive. If you are more comfortable with a smaller group of like minded people, then a niche group may be the perfect answer for you. Just make sure that the criteria are not so specific that you limit yourself to a few individuals relatively speaking, when you could be opening yourself up to hundreds of new relationships.
